Are men who use online dating sites just after one thing?
Just wondered what you all thought about men and online dating.
So are men who use them just after sex?
Which do you think would be a better site, a free one or one you had to pay for?
No, they are not all out for one thing!
I met my boyfriend on http://wwwsinglesnet.info
It took about a month, and he showed interest in me. I registered for a lot of different ones, and didn’t like most. This one is the best so far, and the best thing is it is free!
14 Responses to “Are men who use online dating sites just after one thing?”
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Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 1:08 amReferences :
Whether you pay or not 90% of them just want anal
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 1:58 amReferences :
they have been guys who after years of searching have finally found their love ones and they end up getting married so no not all men use them for sex
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 2:40 amReferences :
No money as well
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 3:06 amReferences :
Perhaps going outside would be a good start.
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 3:30 amReferences :
No, My niece met her husband on the web. I would never have thought it was possible before that! They are very Happy! It’s just like anywhere else, there are some good ones. xox
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 4:02 amReferences :
Online dating sites are kind of questionable. Some of the men on sites like that actually want a relationship, but have a hard time meeting people. Others probably do just want sex. It’s the same way offline, though, so it’s really just a matter of using common sense.
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 4:27 amReferences :
I met my current partner on a dating site, and he couldn’t be more Perfect. I have met many men just after one thing…so don’t be fooled! but there is nice men on the dating sites looking for a relationship. I think a paid site is best defo. Good luck.
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 5:17 amReferences :
No. Not at all. Some are, granted, but many others are just shy. Get to know a guy, and you’ll see his true colours, whether they’re light or dark.
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 6:03 amReferences :
NO.
Sex is not "priceless" – it’s essentially "worthless" . . . . and available to any man for a lot less effort than most women give men credit for.
A man who goes through the trouble of creating a profile (while PAYING FOR THE SERVICE) is generally more serious in his approach.
However . . . you must remind yourself that –>> Until he has met you, what is WRONG with a man who only wants "one thing"??
He is – after all – a MAN. And Sex IS –>> the entire biological point between men and women. So no man can be expected to APOLOGIZE for that.
But if a woman thinks it’s BAD for a man to "only want one thing" from a woman he hasn’t even MET . . . . . . then just how MANY things should he be after??????
• Should he want 1000 things from you?
• Should he want 100 things?
• Or should he want – nothing to do with you at all?????
Be GLAD that man only wants "one thing".
Take it as a compliment, instead of an insult.
Until you have made the effort to make a man want you for anything ELSE – it’s really not HIS problem.
I don’t believe in online dating. It’s a concept that is not "Manly" in any way. It is generally more appealing to women…. because they get to present themselves in a way they would RATHER BE SEEN – instead of the way they actually ARE.
I speak as an authority here – because I am somewhat directly in the Internet / online dating BUSINESS.
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 6:38 amReferences :
Some men are and some are not, just don’t jump in the sack with him right away, if all they want is sex it will be obvious probably from the start, but if the two of you have went on a few dates and hes never spoken of getting you into bed then its a safe bet hes looking for a relationship and not a one night stand.
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 7:23 amDating sites are dating sites weather they are free or not you can still find the same kind of guys in both, it’s more likely to find a guy after sex on a free site but some guys will so called pay for sex as well with a site you have to pay on.
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hmmz… Straight away i have to say NO men who use online dating are not just after sex, infact i would imagine quite the opposite.
If they wanted jsut sex they would go out partying and meet people who are also "up for it"
At least online you get to get to know the person a bit before you make any such irrational commitments.
Saying that i have a friend (a guy) who is on an online dating site, and he genuinely wanted a relationship with somebody descent, and he gets nothing but e-mails and messages from girls saying "your fit" and basically getting straight to the point and asking him if he wants to meet up for sex so i think it swings in rounsabouts really, it is not just men that are after one thing.
I think a paid site and a free site is both equally likely to have the same amount of serious people and people after sex. People that are paying to be a member i.e. match.com etc i guess are more likely to be serious about wanting a relationship… but not everybody wants to spend money/has money to spend on online dating sites so you will also find those people on free sites you might just have to make sure you get to know them online first before you commit to meeting. You will then at least be able to make up your own mind about what they want.. and if its what you want.
Steviexx
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 7:55 amReferences :
I met my boyfriend on Yahoo Personals. Trust me, he wasn’t after sex, we waited 7 months before making love. We went through the sudden death of his father, my mom’s illness, and several other difficult things all the while, we stood beside each other, supporting each other, loving each other. We’ve been together for almost a year and we’re moving in together and talking marriage and children in the near future.
I would suggest something free. I didn’t pay anything for Yahoo Personals, but he had to pay for one month to contact me. It was something like 15 bucks. He said it was the best $15 he’s ever spent.
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 8:04 amReferences :
Personally I haven’t used online dating yet… But I am moving towards it. But I can see why other guys would use online dating just for sex. It seems easier than going to club and picking up a girl for the night.
Paying sites tend to have filtered out most of the crap, but still will have a bit of crap. Better get to know the guy enough before going on a date…
See, for guys who are desperate or wanted sex online dating is cheaper than a hooker. So they will still get into paying sites. But paying sites tend to have less sex-only orientated guys.
Comment made on March 22nd, 2010 at 9:21 amReferences :
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